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Would You Break Up A Relationship If You Found Out Your Partner Could Not Have Children?

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    no
    love is not dependent on reproduction

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    I guess it depends on where you head’s at. My first impulse is an emphatic no, but I realize that not everyone functions according to my beliefs about Honor and duty. My point is we all have a duty and obligation one to the other to be honest and to communicate in a meaningful fashion. Sometimes this can lead to hearing things we may not want to, but in order to be fair we should listen to one another and not let our wants and needs override our partner’s. I realize this is very hard and I don’t do as well as I should but then is it fair to keep silent about our deeply rooted desires and needs? So to break up a relationship over an issue such as children requires communication and compassion from both partners,in this case perhaps facing up to the situation would require each person going their own way. This is a very , very tough question with no real easy or pat answer.

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    Not really because if i truly love the person I will still be with them. I didnt get involved with the person or feel in love with them only because i wanted to have childrens with them. I feel in love with him or her because of who they are not who there not. Besides if the person that iam with or that I love can’t have children then there is a million of childrens that need parents that dont have. Or maybe you dont want to adopt but they are many diffrent ways that you could overcome that situation if you truly want to be with that person.

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    Funny you should ask.
    My wife found out 3 months before we were married that she wouldn’t be able to have any more children.
    Even though we hadn’t had sex yet, we got married anyway.
    Pray about it.

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    no, but i might if they did not WANT children

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    If I was married, then no - but otherwise it might be a deal breaker. Although, there is always adoption - if you have the money to do it.

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    If I wasn’t married to them yet, then I might.

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    I was blessed to have children with my husband, but if we couldn’t have had them , I would have loved him just as much and we wouldn’t have broken up.

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    Because I don’t want to ever have kids, I have hoped for someone who can’t have them. If I ever have a kid, I’m going to name it Houdini. If it gets past the pill, the condom and the surgeon’s knife, it will have to be an escape artist.

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    no i wouldn’t break up i will adopt 2 kids and that person will stick with you because you are understanding that situation everything is on purpose in the life we van learn accept certai things and blessing comes our way god bless you with love

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    If the two are in love … and they find this out after .. and there have been no disceptions … Then it should not be a factor in the least …

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    edsawyer - goodnight, Debra Says:
    January 1st, 2010 at 10:45 am
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    God no! Who would?
    There are plenty of children to be adopted.

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    i would stop dating someone but i wouldnt divorce someone

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    No, I love my partner.

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    NO

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    Debra M. Wishing Peace To All Says:
    January 1st, 2010 at 12:56 pm
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    NO, of course not.

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    Well it all depends on how badly you want to have a biological child! If having a family (not an extended family) really means alot to you then let that person know that that is what you want and don’t just lead them on. On the other hand you can always adopt or just be together for each other. Look at your options. Look inside your heart and figure out what you really want in your life then make your decision. If you decide that you want to have a biological child then let that person know that that is what you want to do before things go to far, but if your love is strong enough then let your love for that person decide!!!

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    Course not. If i wanted a child that badly, i would Adopt.

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    OF COURSE NOT! (if there is love involved)

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    no ,i would love my partner no matter if they could have kids or not that’s love ,if the person is that shallow to leave because of not having kids then they just weren’t meant to be together .there is always a way to have children .adoption,Sargent mother,ect…

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    At this point I have two children and don’t want any more, so that would be FANTASTIC to find out.

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    no…adoption is always an option

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    no, adoption is a very good option.

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