My girlfriend and I took a break after being together for like 12 years because she thought I was cheating or doing something ’suspicious’ on MySpace. So, I deleted my MySpace account never to return to it for the sake of saving my relationship, but by then it was too late. My gf had already made her decision to maintain a significant amount of space from me for about two months, all the while continuing to live in the same house together. We eventually got back together and are still together to this day. It was rough, though especially with having to see her everyday, but knowing that we weren’t together…that I wasn’t allowed to touch her, sleep with her, kiss her, make love to her, or even to laugh and joke with her as we normally would. I would have to say that that was the most challenging of the separation.
If this is really something that you and your gf want or is necessary for the betterment of your relationship, think long and hard about it to make certain that it’s truly what will work best for your relationship. Good luck to you both.
my girl cheated a few time & I kept being a sucker then a few weeks later I realized I would be fine on my own & other people would be interested in me. I broke it off & started talking to a girl & a few guys. she kept saying she wanted me back & wouldn’t do it again. a month later I gave in & told the people I was back with my girl. that was 2 yrs ago. we have been together since & are living together the only problem is that she loves bringing up things I did when we were broken up ( which was not as bad as what she did) and it gets me mad. I don’t bring things up from the past normally so I think that she should do the same for me. anyway all in all I think it was a good thing and was needed. good luck with your situation
Yes we did. We talked and fought a lot. We were in a LDR and she had a lot of commitment issues and a drinking problem. It didn’t end up working out for us though. Sorry I can’t offer better insight, but that’s my story. Good luck.
January 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am
My girlfriend and I took a break after being together for like 12 years because she thought I was cheating or doing something ’suspicious’ on MySpace. So, I deleted my MySpace account never to return to it for the sake of saving my relationship, but by then it was too late. My gf had already made her decision to maintain a significant amount of space from me for about two months, all the while continuing to live in the same house together. We eventually got back together and are still together to this day. It was rough, though especially with having to see her everyday, but knowing that we weren’t together…that I wasn’t allowed to touch her, sleep with her, kiss her, make love to her, or even to laugh and joke with her as we normally would. I would have to say that that was the most challenging of the separation.
If this is really something that you and your gf want or is necessary for the betterment of your relationship, think long and hard about it to make certain that it’s truly what will work best for your relationship. Good luck to you both.
January 26th, 2010 at 4:48 am
my girl cheated a few time & I kept being a sucker then a few weeks later I realized I would be fine on my own & other people would be interested in me. I broke it off & started talking to a girl & a few guys. she kept saying she wanted me back & wouldn’t do it again. a month later I gave in & told the people I was back with my girl. that was 2 yrs ago. we have been together since & are living together the only problem is that she loves bringing up things I did when we were broken up ( which was not as bad as what she did) and it gets me mad. I don’t bring things up from the past normally so I think that she should do the same for me. anyway all in all I think it was a good thing and was needed. good luck with your situation
January 26th, 2010 at 4:50 am
Yes we did. We talked and fought a lot. We were in a LDR and she had a lot of commitment issues and a drinking problem. It didn’t end up working out for us though. Sorry I can’t offer better insight, but that’s my story. Good luck.
January 26th, 2010 at 4:52 am
First of all i dont have a girl freind now
second of all
im not a girl
figure this out
with a girl yahoo person