From the way it sounds now, get out while you still have some sanity. He seems to be controlling and mentally abusive, that is not good for you. Ok, so you made a mistake, tell him to get over it. Making you feel guilty is not a way of showing love. He seems to have problems of his own. Get away and take a break. You deserve better and need to get yourself together. If he doesn’t like it, that would all the proof you need it is time to go. If one incident last for this long, just think about what could happen if there were another one! Go ahead and get out and get your head cleared up about what you want out of life.

he needs to learn that people makes mistakes but they usually learn from their mistakes. it’s going to take him some time ti regain trust with you depending on what you did. it’s not right of him to keep bringing it up & he needs to give you some space so you can prove to him that you have learned from your mistake & you know that you messed up. i hate to say this but if you two love each other he should try & give you some space so you can prove you love him & if he’s not going to give you that much then maybe you should try to move on..?

talk to him
let him know that u really love him and u r really sorry for what u did.
that u know that u hurt him, and u really regret having ever hurt him
but that he’s pushing u away… that u feel the more he clings 2 u the more u guys are getting far apart.
tell him u need him to be a lil more trustful… u made a mistake, but u’ve HOPEFULLY, learned from it and wont’ make the same mistake twice.
that u need him to stop bringing the same subject over and over, or else u will have to call the relationship quits, stay friends, and each find themselves a new bf…

You must ask yourself these questions…Do you love him? Do you love yourself? Is he worth the trouble? If you want to go through this emotional roller coaster for a while then these are the steps to take…
1- This is an emotional power struggle…agree with all the ” **** you did in the past,” if you agree with him then what is there to argue about?
2- You wont get a night to yourself until his trust is built back up…YOU MUST REBUILD IT.
3-Take some time for yourself- WHO is the adult here?
4- If all else fails MOVE ON!

A relationship is built on trust. If he cant trust you, then you dont have a good realtionship. You need to have a very serious one on one talk with him telling him what you told me and try to comprimise. If he still cant come to trust you, then the relationship is doomed to fail.

Why would you ever waste your one life away on bad times? Go have fun, get rid of the drama and be free. Life is just too short. A man and a women can be happy, that’s that. Next time you are in a relationship, think about not hurting someone, then you wouldn’t be going through this.

take a break, if hes not willing to trust you then you shouldnt be in this relationship. the basis of a relationship is trust, without it you have nothing.

You are not mature enough to have a relationship. Do yourself and that other person a favour and break up.
4 months is not so long ago, you obviously hurt him deeply

‘IF’ you didn’t do anything to be mistrusted…and he’s behaving like that…there’s something seriously wrong with him…get him to a professional psychologist as fast as you can…he’s suffering from paranoia…

he needs to know that trust it the key to a healthy realtionshipp.
you need to gain or create trust.
if he dosent trust you then, is it realy worth it?

You need to have this conversation with him.
Edit Note:
You need to have this conversation with him and a professional couples counselor.

Trust must be earned. If you did something to make him not trust you it can take some time to regain.

switch to girls.

try dating a girl, they love putting things past them. and no im not trying to be an idiot, im giving my actual advice.

drink heavily, it works for me..(burp)

break up date me

take a break

maybe be u to need sum space, doesn mean ur gonna break up.

Well, what did you expect? You brought it on yourself. Trust takes a LONG time to reestablish and 4 months isn’t very long!