Is your relationship breaking up and no longer stable with your partner? If it is so, then someone has to make a move forward to either save it or end your relationship. And keep in mind that you must bring up the issue in such a manner that no one gets hurt.

Firstly, you should be honest to yourself and it is only then that you will be able to move forward. Ask yourself the reasons why you want it to be over. If you see you will be lost and forget things when you will actually be talking with your partner, then note down the simple thoughts in your mind. This may help you build up a more structured talk.

Look for a suitable time to end your relationship. I would advise you not to waste time, the quicker you do it the better for you. Avoid doing so over the phone, instead be a little courageous and do it personally.

In order not to damage the relationship completely, you must talk with your partner with kindness and sympathy. Ask him or her to stay friends and forget whatever bad you two went through. Tel the person, “you do agree with me, this relationship is not working?”. Talk about the things you have both done and that you will always remember, this can be encouraging for your partner.

Your partner can get sentimental and cry, be nice and comfort them, and make them understand. During this time, you partner can get very angry and venture out their anger on you. Be ready to hear extremely awful things and do not take it at heart, the step they are going through is really tough. A relationship breaking up is hard for anyone.

In order to fully come to an end, you both may need some time, so allow the space and if ever your partner is requesting for their belongings, do the exchange.

Now that you are all set to start your life afresh, do not take the guilt of the break up on your charge. It must be mutual. You both must agree with it so that in the future you can share a positive relationship.